Sorry, are you supposed to be honest or not? Yes, ma’am! No one has to hold you at gunpoint to get the truth out. It’s when you’re not in on it that you freak out. When something just isn’t adding up, you do the forensics and follow the trail. You honor the laws of cause and effect, own the consequences of your actions, and hold others accountable for theirs too. Your situation requires a firm, final, and fair decision, so be conscious of what you believe to be true and what you believe to be ethical. You’re not jealous, crazy, or small-minded in your logic. As you would with online dating, let your intuition guide you through all the facts. Find one cockroach? There’s gonna be a lot of cockroaches under that sheetrock. Where you see lies? Name ‘em! Once you reach a verdict, though, there is no second-guessing or going backward. Still, if you do regret a decision, have your little breakdown and apologize to those affected. Lifted by the Holy Spirit, you are as genuine as you can be.