First of all, calm the fuck down. You may be over the top and extra, but don’t let the hair and nails fool you. When quick changes throw you under the bus, you tuck and roll with the punches and hold your own. You got cajones from Staten Island and sass and fun from Jersey, but you must learn to pick and choose your battles is a balancing act. If you are succeeding in wisely. Life one area, anticipate stumbling in another. Be patient and flexible as you weigh your options and juggle new challenges. Big entrances don’t always require big reactions, so practice objectivity and release the need to overcomplicate your situation. Remember, you don’t have to be busy to get things done. When you are hanging on by a thread, taking a break is the most productive thing you can do. Once you see through the game, you are free of it-- and full of second chances.