Gloves are off, let’s go. You are OG of the OC, and everyone else is just a copy. You operate in competition, sizing everyone up as friend or foe. And when it’s time to go big or go home, you’re not going home. Although the chaos you whoop up stokes friendly fire without real purpose or consequence, you may feel crucified when comes to defending a personal matter. it Everyone has their opinions on the right course of action, and you are fighting to be heard or understand the source of someone’s point of view. This creates tension and contention on who is or is not your friend, your soulmate, your sister. But when you can’t even tell someone how mad you are, take a moment to listen. Instead of questioning who or why someone is at your table, be open to diversifying your circle. And before diagnosing someone as cancerous, always get a second opinion.